Agla mahina tumharay liye bahut bhaari hai. Raat k vaqt, tumhara ghar se bahar nikalna ashub hoga. Aur pooray chandrima ki raat ko ghar se bahar kadam rakhna tumhary liye khatarnaak sabit ho sakta hai.
Aur amaavas ki raat ko.......chanay ki daal.......aur doodh nahin peena bacha........aur laal rang kay kapray mat pehan na..........varna tumhara sarvinash ho sakta hai. Aisa karna PAAP hoga. Aur subha k vaqt.......aaswhirwad.....liye bina.........ghar se bahar mat jana..........varna din.......bhaari paray ga.
All joking asides..............I don't believe in this "bhaari" stuff. Superstitions of any sort have no place in Islam. Superstitions are common in Hindu culture........(there's a difference between religion and culture)...........and Pakistan used to be a part of India. Some of the cultural superstitions spread to the Muslims........and they brought those ideas with them to Pakistan as well.
Life was not meant to be perfect. In the Quran, Allah says that He will test us in various ways. He'll test us with our health.........our wealth (job/finances)......and even lives (death/birth).
What if you were just destined to have some hardships during this time? What if this is Allah's way of testing you and your family? It is said that when a Muslim suffers any grief, even the pricking of a thorn, Allah removes some of his sins. These problems could have taken place.............NO MATTER.............what house you would have moved in. Your health and wealth and relationships could have been affected even if you had never moved to a new home at all............even if you had moved into an apartment...........even if you had moved into a palace.
When people start blaming things for their misfortunes........they're exempting themselves from individual responsibility. For example......you could be receiving poor grades because you're not focused at school........not because this school week is "bhaari" for you. You could be having health problems because you're not taking care of your diet........or you're allergic to something........or you have a family history of a particular illness.........and not necessarily because evil spirits are surrounding you. You could be having financial problems because the ECONOMY is bad for EVERYONE right now.........jobs are hard to find.........and everything is so expensive. If a loved one was to pass away.........it happened because that was their time to leave this world........not because that particular weak/month/year was unlucky or "bhari" or "heavy" or "burdensome".
Recite the ayatul kursi and 3 Qulr regularly. Recite surah Baqarah in your home if you fear there are jinns in your home or if you fear someone has put the evil eye on you. Pray namaz regularly and seek help from Allah alone because He ultimately controls your destiny. And................then take out the time.............to reflect over what actions of YOUR OWN........could be causing problems for you.......and then try to implement a plan to resolve issues. Dua comes with action.
Saying that "this is a bhari time" for you...........sounds EXACTLY...........and I mean EXACTLY like what an astrologer would say. You'll often see astrologers say........that the next month will be "bhaari" for Leos, Virgos, Arians, Scorpios, Aquarians, Taureans, etc etc etc. If they know very well when the future will be "bhari" for someone..........then how come they're not able to predict when bigger disasters such as floods, wars, etc will strike this world????
And I know that you'll say, "But I never went to an astrologer.........it's only our neighbors/family friends that are telling us that our home is bhari for us." Well, Pinklove, if problems in life could be so easily removed or prevented by moving into different homes.......................people would be using this cure all the time.
Put your faith in Allah, who said that life was not meant to be easy and that tests of various kinds will surely come our way. Seek protection and prosperity and security from HIM. May He keep all of us safe, healthy, and in secure iman, Amin.
