Re: When reading this forum...
Sadly, I have to agree with Shikra and Ali bhai.
GS "desi girls" are not your average desi girls. These GS girls are westernized, "intelligent" (whatever that means), from upper class families. These girls, when I say this maybe 90%, have not seen what it's like to live in a struggling middle class home. They have not seen the true struggle people go through. Again not speaking for all but 90% is about right.
These girls are into that "equality" hype which is all bunch of fairy tale BS. In Islam which I think we all believe is the true way of life for all time for all mankind, there is no such concept as "equality". by equality they mean working same jobs as men, bringing home $, "providing"...etc These roles are given to men by God, NOT women. Unfortunately, even our own are getting trapped in this madness. No wonder you see high number of marital issues in western societies than you do in tradional societies. Now, don't tell me those women are oppressed please because they're not, try living in their shoes for 1 day you will see they are FREE. They have more freedom than all of you "westernized" girls. They are not trapped in the "financial" stituations (that you create yourself)......
Anyways, all I am saying is, live a simple life, once you start living simple, there won't be any "equality" BS you will care about because you will realize it's all made up.