does it mean what i think it means? 
you really sound so much more mature and sophisticated than these girls…NOT!!!
and btw, although i don’t participate in this forum as much, but what i have noticed is that all these poor girls are only trying to make sense of their relationships and complaining is not the driving force behind these questions but they are genuinely seeking guidance because they want to fix things.
men and women react very differently when things go wrong, men go into hibernation and women seek answers.