bcsm57,
Im sorry to hear that it happened to you also.
At one point in my life the anger over what happened was turning me into an awful person.But i chose to forgive them.If i had continued to think on it then they would of still won,as if it had happened again.Anytime you trully forgive someone..you gain your self confidence back.
god bless you
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Originally posted by chris_wazir:
*bcsm57,
Im sorry to hear that it happened to you also.
At one point in my life the anger over what happened was turning me into an awful person.But i chose to forgive them.If i had continued to think on it then they would of still won,as if it had happened again.Anytime you trully forgive someone..you gain your self confidence back.
god bless you *
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I know that what you say is true, but it is hard for me to forgive them. I was always taught that sex was to be saved for marriage. I was only 15 when it happened, and a virgin. When I did get married, I felt dirty and like I was in some way cheating my husband who was a virgin. I know it wasn't my fault, but at the same time, all of my earlier upbringing caused a lot of confusion. In any case your words do make me feel better. Thank You.
Brenda McLennan
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I think woman should try to bang the head or balls of the rapist & teach him a good lesson.
**
Najam bhai i neevr know u can speak like this.
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i thought its onlyme.However before ur coments i was thinking what to say but now i can say surely. See last line in quotes.
but don’t u think its like a “saying” which is not going to women in any case.
May be i can’t explain it but if we think it in a diffrent way, someone say it in that way.
(Well Its 100% sure and sould be understand that its not about the girls , I personlly like to put the 100 tons of HCL to that person who think about rape.)
i know i can’t speak english ok can u install "pci"Modem in Linux
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Originally posted by secret_obsession:
Its a dumb question that how can men enjoy rape. Offcourse they can enjoy it thats why it is so common. If i was a man probably i wouldnt have hated it either.
and I am sure a lot of guys who pretends to hate rape dont actually do.
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And i believe this is more sick coment then using the micosoft windows.
What u think about girls they r 2nd vloume of Allah mian .This is just sick minded women speaking.
what u think (if u said above stupid think seriously) this is like to go to park .this is only a diesesas ,a crime or anything like ti but a rape can never never be like by a man or group of men.
At least you should first 10 times think what u r posting.Any one can give me single example that they found some rapist liking sex, it can be someone hobby , for adventure ,for satisfaction or any thing, but its a sick ,every law every society says it that this is crime and this is sick nature.and they r men who r running these scocites and laws,
What a poor way to get sympathy.
i know i can't speak english ok can u install "pci"Modem in Linux
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p agrees with sailor uncle
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Originally posted by ghalib:
**>>>...My signature does not infact mean rape, it uses the word rape to emphasize a point.
i.e. When something is bound to go wrong and you can't help it you might aswell make the most of it.
Rizwaan,
your statements means just what it says: "Rape". Nothing less, though maybe more (or so you claim). Bottom line is this, alot of people here, including myself, lack ESP/telepathy to understand what you meant so we have to go by what you write. So please write a little description of metaphors you're using in your posts in the future so we all won;t feel so stupid infront of you. Until then, we all have to be naive enough read your words and interpret on our own.
p.s. are you by any chance relate to that singer Eminem? Cause he gave a similar description of the word "gay" in his songs.**
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yes i am. I'm his dad and you're my grandson.
When rape is inevitable lie back and enjoy it.
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Originally posted by sailor:
** And i believe this is more sick coment then using the micosoft windows.
What u think about girls they r 2nd vloume of Allah mian .This is just sick minded women speaking.
what u think (if u said above stupid think seriously) this is like to go to park .this is only a diesesas ,a crime or anything like ti but a rape can never never be like by a man or group of men.
At least you should first 10 times think what u r posting.Any one can give me single example that they found some rapist liking sex, it can be someone hobby , for adventure ,for satisfaction or any thing, but its a sick ,every law every society says it that this is crime and this is sick nature.and they r men who r running these scocites and laws,
What a poor way to get sympathy.
**
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and you should atleast 100 times think before you post because your brain is almost empty. because of your several posts i have an idea of how sick and dirty you are.... so your these comments havent amazed me at all....what else can one accept from a person like you...????
i took psychology and i am well aware of men's nature they do enjoy rape ... it satisfies their lust and evil nature... i know some victims who have been through it...it is more common than you think it is or you pretend to believe so....
about men running these laws....yeaha there are few good men in this world but most are of evil nature..
and youuuuu empty mind... you said what a poor way to get sympathy.... are you out of your mind who do you think is trying to get sympathy... atleast not me... i dont need any.
i guess you are trying to get some sympathy....
secret i am sorry if u hurt.
wsay sub larkian aik jesy hoti hein,i was even expecting the same words from u , i do not why but i was sure that u will say this.
There should be a tag at every women,
girl should be handel with care
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well no ofence my dear
i know i can’t speak english ok can u install "pci"Modem in Linux
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Play Your Game - Guess My Motto
men!!!
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Originally posted by secret_obsession:
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and you should atleast 100 times think before you post because your brain is almost empty. because of your several posts i have an idea of how sick and dirty you are.... so your these comments havent amazed me at all....what else can one accept from a person like you...????
i took psychology and i am well aware of men's nature they do enjoy rape ... it satisfies their lust and evil nature... i know some victims who have been through it...it is more common than you think it is or you pretend to believe so....
about men running these laws....yeaha there are few good men in this world but most are of evil nature..
and youuuuu empty mind... you said what a poor way to get sympathy.... are you out of your mind who do you think is trying to get sympathy... atleast not me... i dont need any.
i guess you are trying to get some sympathy....
**
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May b u should het the psychology classes again. Or beter: c a psychiatrist!
U are sad dear, verry sad
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Originally posted by dutch_paki:
** May b u should het the psychology classes again. Or beter: c a psychiatrist!
U are sad dear, verry sad
**
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Mr. dutch i am not sad you might are... but i can help you get a psychiatrist ...you need one.
Thanx i am seeing one already
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I suddenly discovered that this was a verry sick post, so i will not lower myself to the level of this post and i wont reply.
A sad post.
have a nice day, and i hope i never meet a person like u.
**
“Cultus addit hominibus auctoritatem”
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now now little munky’s no neeed to fight over this … now kiss n make up … otherwise i might have to take xtreme measures
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REACH out and FRAG someone!
LOL I hope the same for you…
have a nice day and i hope i meet dozens like you…I enjoy people who don’t agree me …it saves me the trouble of likeing them.
LOL I hope the same for you…
sorry
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i couldnt stay away
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well here s a poem :
Bruises run up
my arms.
In a pattern,
empty footsteps.
Fear of
reality.
The door handle
turns.
Pushed open
behind you.
A hand grabs your
shoulder,
and the mirror shatters.
His hand slips
over your stomach.
Wanting to
pull away.
But scared
of what might
happen if
you do.
Insecurity
creeps over you.
A sense of doubt,
a feeling
of emptyness.
Streaks of
black tears,
run across your face,
tracking your
fears and
confusion.
Flashes thunder
across the mind,
and silence
eats the calmness.
Overwhelmed with
a pressure
too strong.
Endless discomfort.
You raise your
eyes.
And see a
haunting image.
Staring back
from that shattered
mirror.
**
“Cultus addit hominibus auctoritatem”
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In my opnion MEN enjoy Rape more & defenitely at the expense of woman.
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For men masterbation is enjoyable ,then why not remain to yourself by masterbating if getting your FIX is so important & critical.Why raper?B/c it uis more enjoyable than that
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Women are terrified by rape & i can only imagine they go through & feel it .There is no way a woman can enjoy .She can pretend to save her life if that is what is required.
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Rape of men is not IDENTICAL.It cant be .Erection is a must for intercourse which does not happen if you are on viagra & not taken it or if you r young & not want it .
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Those assualt by women of men is more in realm of 2nd best to actual rape
MOLESTATION of “lover boys” like handsome actor, rock artiste or other cute pretty men that fansies daring womens tastes.But again this is not same as RAPE & it is rare.
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I am a reproductive biologist
Bik Gaya Jo Woh Kharidar Nahi Ho Sakta
“To be raped is even worse than being burnt to death…” Unknown Woman
http://www.sulekha.com/redirectNh.asp?cid=190487
16 April 2002 TEHELKA
The trauma of being a Muslim and a woman
According to a fact-finding team, Muslim women in Gujarat are being subjected to the most heinous forms of sexual violence in the riot-ridden state, reports Rinku Pegu
New Delhi, April 16
Will the United Nations Human Rights Commission spare a thought for the gruesome acts of sexual violence being perpetuated against Muslim women in Gujarat? Rape and gangrape of women and even minors are virtually daily ordeals for Muslim women who have escaped the communal carnage in Gujarat.
This is what a six-member fact-finding team discovered in the refugee camps and shelters of Gujarat.
Representing various women’s organizations, the six- member team covered the six districts of Gujarat where the riots took place, visiting not only the towns but also interior villages. Creating much apprehension and alarm, one aspect of the Gujarat riots was that this was the first time that communal riots, which were formerly confined to ghettos in cities, engulfed the hinterland and villages.
A booklet brought out by the fact-finding team called “How has the Gujarat Massacre Affected Minority Women?” is replete with incidents of violence that the Muslim women were subjected to. One of the rape survivors, Sultani, narrated how while escaping in a tempo truck, the vehicle overturned forcing the passengers to flee. Sultani was caught from behind, thrown to the ground and gangraped with her two-year-old son still clinging to her arms. In another such incident, Kusum Bibi narrated how she saw the genitals of a 16-year-old girl being split open after she was raped.
Incidentally, the National Commission for women (NCW) is yet to come out with a single statement on the violence meted out to Muslim women in the communal rioting at Gujarat. An independent statutory body, the NCW is expected to be in the forefront of such events.
Farah Naqvi, an independent journalist who was part of the fact-finding team, described that visiting the various refugee camps in Gujarat and talking to the women there reminded her of the rape camps that existed in Bosnia which no one knew about till outsiders went on a fact-finding mission.
What was emphasised by the panel is that the violence against women should not go unpunished. The rapists must be brought to book. Here it is important to note that since medical proof of the violence as required under the Indian law would be long gone (for medical validity, a rape victim has to be examined within 48 hours of the attack) it is necessary to bring in testimony as evidence for prosecution.
Sheba Joseph, who was also part of the fact-finding team, said, “The women really need the healing touch of knowing that the perpetrators do not go scot-free. This is because their confidence and faith in the system has been completely eroded. They are so afraid that they ask, ‘who will lodge our FIRs? The police will not hear’.” There are indeed blatant examples of where the very institutions that were meant to protect the citizens have turned predators.
Despite the state government’s claim that FIRs are being lodged and action taken the ground reality shows otherwise. On top of that, whatever little FIRs that are lodged are registered against mobs. Because a mob is not an individual, it cannot be identified and punished.
According to Malini Ghosh, another member of the team, people in the camps were willing to talk as if that would mitigate part of their problem. Recounting their sordid plight, several women referred to their experience as a war-like situation. Recalling the appalling conditions in which Muslims are living now, which indicts the state government’s neglect, Malini Ghosh describes how a refugee camp housing not less than 9,000 people has to make do with only 22 toilets.
Outlining the gravity of the situation, Syeda Hamida, another member, pointed out, “The atrocities and crime committed against Muslim women in Gujarat is in gross violation of the various international treaties and conventions to which India is a signatory.” According to Hamida, these are enough grounds for the international community to intervene on behalf of the suffering minority community.