Re: when people feel obligated
Dushy, a close friend of mine once "betrayed" my trust when I was in college. I was very hurt and thought I'd never forgive her. Many years later, I found out that the truth was far from what really happened. I realized that sometimes making assumptions or relying on one sided feedback can cloud my opinion. She hadn't really betrayed me but miscommunication and impatience on my part led me to believe so. The unfortunate part is that I have never been able to reconcile with her because she and I left off on very bitter grounds and closed the door on each other. Now it's been many years and all of a sudden, this thread reminded of that incident.