Re: when people feel obligated
good perspectives, everyone. it is a matter that slides between being each to her/his own & back and forth trust-mi rstrust relationing, if you will, with the people who hurt and are insensitive, do so, many times, to where you cannot trust them, anylonger.
what may hurt even more, is the insensitivity with which they do so, disregarding all partnership from before and the kindness and cooperation you gave to them, when they were in actuality so undeserving of it all.
the choices, one makes in relating to people at work, & in personal lives- among friends and family members, all comes down to being consistent and fair.
then, perhaps, getting dissuaded by untrustworthy relations, will not happen.