Re: When people come over…
I’m guilty of that 
As a kid/teen/whatever I’d stay holed up in my room. Parents never made me come and talk to the guests… never helped myh mom or anything :-/
Now that I’m not living with my parents, whenever I do go see them, I will at least say salam/help my mom…and depending on who it was, I’d hang around if I wanted to.
I remember when going to others houses, I’d stay glued to my mom for a while…even if there were other kids, they scared me 