do people become more responsible or less responsible for their own individual decisions about jobs and studies, finances, religious zeal, being of help to less able people, their familial and social obligations/aspects of their lives?
to what extent on average, people begin to realign their ideals & values as well as what they want to achieve in life, with that of their spouse’s ideals & values?
besides contentful compromise for both sides, what are some other arrangements for coexisting peacefully and without feeling disappointed or alone if the spouse is not there in spirits and in reality does not support or motivates?
Re: when people begin living together as married couple?
it all depends upon that married couple ............... and that how much they've in common that includes not just thoughts , dreams , interests and future plans , but also their professions and family background, plus their tendency to share and accomodate each other within their own personal space which was previously their own territory, and willingness to back up & motivate n support each other whether they're having a routine or doing things ( studies, job, profession etc) according to their own individual/ specific interest or not and last but not the least the compromising factor also helps.
it's the "us" factor in marriage that always** encourages** u more in making decisions ( money matters , family matters) in boosting yr confidence and and ofcoarse strengthen the marriage.
Re: when people begin living together as married couple?
I think marriage brings strength in each spouse, a companionship and friendship and a feeling of unity. That happens over a period of time, with effort and hard work and a mutual understanding, and when that happens a strong hometeam can handle all life's obstacles with much more ease than individually.
Re: when people begin living together as married couple?
I know, its not the question here, but have u guys noticed that when goris and goras are just living together as a couple, they are totally fine with each other and can live for ages like that, but as soon as they get married, problems start and they split within few months/yrs ?
Re: when people begin living together as married couple?
^^^ it's that "us" factor in their case which sometimes is hard to realize and implement.
also lack of commitment n forgiveness can lead to a seperation
Re: when people begin living together as married couple?
nice theoretically and i am sure many blessed couples have this vision of being 'we think...' instead of 'she and me thinks...' or 'me and he thinks...'.
the us factor is essential to bonding and to really know about each other's sense of what the couple is up against or working
towards.
its only in the hardest times that the real resiliency and commitment shows.