Re: when people already "book" with you for a furure wedding =(
agghh.. I had a girl like that at work, when she found out I was getting married she invited herself to all 3 of my events, and announced that she would be the one throwing me the bridal shower which needless to say had me sh$tting bricks ! I just could not see her in my family environment - shes loud-bossy-up in everyone's business. To top it off I felt soo bad that I said, you know what, I'm jsut gonna suck it up and invite her but none of my friends wanted to be seated at the same table as her !! So I ummm... forgot to invite her? She hasn't said anything to me, but when she talked to some of my other friends, they told her "ooh you know the family was cutting the list left right and centre, hall was coming to full capacity".
Thing is, I don't think people like that will hold it against you, cuz hey, if not your wedding, they'll cling themself onto someone else who has a wedding coming up.