when people already "book" with you for a furure wedding =(

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lol - she is married and has 2 kids - just like I do :)

I would not be comfortable "going" to her family event because I am not a chit-chatter like her :) She can strike a conversation with anybody anytime - that's a plus skills for her :)

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^ I know how annoying that can be! I'm not even engaged and can count 12 random people who've already invited themselves to my wedding..which I will mention again, is not even being planned at this point.
To me, weddings should be small and a private affair. Unfortunately my parents know a lot of people so having a guest list of 150 is out of the question. But having said that, I do plan on keeping the number as limited as possible. You gotta do what you gotta do!

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agghh.. I had a girl like that at work, when she found out I was getting married she invited herself to all 3 of my events, and announced that she would be the one throwing me the bridal shower which needless to say had me sh$tting bricks ! I just could not see her in my family environment - shes loud-bossy-up in everyone's business. To top it off I felt soo bad that I said, you know what, I'm jsut gonna suck it up and invite her but none of my friends wanted to be seated at the same table as her !! So I ummm... forgot to invite her? She hasn't said anything to me, but when she talked to some of my other friends, they told her "ooh you know the family was cutting the list left right and centre, hall was coming to full capacity".

Thing is, I don't think people like that will hold it against you, cuz hey, if not your wedding, they'll cling themself onto someone else who has a wedding coming up.

D.N.A. Test... :D :D :D
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you guys are talking about those who “invite” themselves to your wedding. but what about those who “invite” you thesmelves but when time comes they just forget a[bout you? like they are all happy and sweet to see you , say all sorts of sweet things but when it comes time for action..u dont exist?

Oh and when u still congratulate her later on she sends u a reply that (not those exact words but definitely implies) “dont ever talk to me again?” :)](“http://www.paklinks.com/gs/editpost.php?do=editpost&p=6446285”)

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just blame it on your sibs and tell her they're having a small, intimate affair with close family and friends only, and really, their guest list isn't something you can influence.

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ye i like that. It's straight, simple, yet polite.

I can still talk to her later on without any fuss :) lol

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oh true true!!! Sara it’s funny - I had a friend who use to brag about inviting us to her home so many times - like she would say in June or July or whatever, and when time came she would disappear :frowning: So I thought she must have been busy. When she called next, she said she was busy of course :hehe:
It’s been 3 years she keeps saying I will invite, and then nothing happens :slight_smile: Although I said fine, and I have invited her and her family over two times.

oh well that was for a house visit not wedding:hehe:

Junaid Khan...
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No, I was being sarcastic at your relation with your so called ‘friend’. You ‘use’ her and she ‘uses’ you and you cannot tell her what’s on your mind. What friendship! :stuck_out_tongue:

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:frowning: bas duniya chalti rehti hai

kya kare?

:hehe:

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Lol this is a funny topic honestly!!! im suprised so many gals got so many thoughts stuck in their heads... carry on gals i'm listening... oops! reading.... lol

Bait Bazi March 2013
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hmmmm! Do you mean to say "stupid" thoughts lingering in our heads or "worthwhile"? explain pls....

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^lol - thats hilarious.. but its true how many people just say it out of formality..

If I were you I would jst keep on the lookout - she sounds like someone who would jst come to the wedding no matter what - especially if shes in a circle of friends who u might invite to the wedding .. so telling them what **sgc **suggested might work for you without ruining your friendship with her..

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I'd invite her to my home functions or on the mehndi just to get her off my back bc i know its not easy to just ignore and say "hey i already have too many guests on the list" if u invite her to ur home fot like dholki and maybe mehndi then u can easily say well the wedding is srticlty family so thts y i am inviting u to the mehndi/home dholki or whatever! hope this helps!!

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just explain that your parents have invited too many people and say ohhh my sibling is so upset that they can't invite their close friends, i'm trying to tell my parents it's more important that their friends are at the wedding than people my parents hardly keep in touch with.

it sounds true, most likely will be a problem when weddings arise so it most likely wont be a lie, and it'll nicely give her the heads up that the wedding count is too high and may not include her.

I hate it when ppl assume they are going to get invitations and hate seeing people sulk when they are left out at the same time some day they will have to pay or help pay for a western wedding and understand.