When one chooses to remain single...

which many Muslim males and females do, some even marry late- well into their 30s, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But how do they compensate for their physical needs?

I can predict the way this thread will go........ but I'll give you all the benefit of the doubt and see if you can post some mature and/or sensible replies.

Irony.

If they dont wish to get married (Muslims), then doesnt that mean they can do without the physical needs?

Unless you're a practising Bhudhist monk and have complete control over your desires and emotions and can live on water for 15 days and not die, then yes its possible, but otherwise I think its going to be difficult.

Shahreeeeeenn, why dont you impart some words of wisdom. :)

Re: When one chooses to remain single…

Why do u need to know? aren’t some things better left untold…especially this type of stuff, which u know will be taken the wrong way..as most things posted by women are around here :rolleyes:

Why do I need to know? Because I'm curious, just incase I'm 35 and living with 6 cats.

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Unless you're a practising Bhudhist monk and have complete control over your desires and emotions and can live on water for 15 days and not die, then yes its possible, but otherwise I think its going to be difficult.

Shahreeeeeenn, why dont you impart some words of wisdom. :)
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Im afraid you're wrong.

Then buy cat food. :k:

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Why do I need to know? Because I'm curious, just incase I'm 35 and living with 6 cats.
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Im sure u'l figure it out for urself by the time ur 35 and im sure ur cats wont mind teaching u a few tricks.

:)

This is a valid question, but you guys can take the mickey if you want. :rolleyes:

Marriage is recommended and in many cases mandated by sunnat-e-rasool/Islamic shariah and if you choose not to follow it then you're free to satisfy your desires however you want.

What if you're unmarried and still living an Islamic life. I've known of extremely pious people who are unmarried due to medical conditions.

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What if you're unmarried and still living an Islamic life. I've known of extremely pious people who are unmarried due to medical conditions.
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Then it's simple. They should not get married. Allah tests his servants.

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Shahreeeeeenn, why dont you impart some words of wisdom. :)
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Hey I'm not quite that old yet. You young whippersnappers, rubbing it in.

Well having plenty of good friends helps keep your mind of it...then again a nightful of hardcore (non physical) flirting sometimes eases the tension.

I dont think anything can really compensate..you can supress them but thats about it.

Loving oneself is the answer. Horny basturds will find some creative way to reach the climax.

:jhanda:

^ Yes you've hit the nail on the head.

or else, one should take up zen buddhism.

^ Was that the answer you wanted to hear?

Coz it doesnt compensate it..it feeds it.

No not really, was being slightly sarcastic actually. I guess there is no real answer, LK high levels of flirting with whom? Meaningless flirting is surely unfulfilling.

P.S. where have you been?

Hmm meaningless flirting..hmm I dunno when I;m with some really great pals who know me inside out a lil “hi how you doin” sorta relaxes me..makes me laugh it out and just makes me happy happy on the whole.

P.S - I’ve been here…but I’m still so gald you missed me :kiss: :smiley: