Re: When missing someone...
hmm first I try remember good days I spent with him/her and if it hurts then I simply make myself busy or just try sleep.
Re: When missing someone...
hmm first I try remember good days I spent with him/her and if it hurts then I simply make myself busy or just try sleep.
Anything helps, But you must really give in to it and cry at the beginning if you feel like it, You must never hold it in, ever. Let it out, wether it takes 1 hour or a whole week or longer, You need to basically 'mourn' that person, I know it sounds bad but thats the only way you can get over it emotionally. After you've emotionally got over it, You can start dancing, :) Find a job? or a new one, Get a new hobby..
When i missed someone so badly, I cried alot.. Then emotionally drained myself... So i had nothing left, one day i woke up and didnt wanna cry anymore. I started to put my negative feelings into a positive by finding new things, I learnt how to thread my eyebrows :) I got my hair done, Changed the colour completly, Changed my whole style.. Become a much nicer person, I always thought Allah Malik.. Hes theres hes watching he will surely sort it for me inshallah. I always thought that no matter what. I've found myself a good job whilst training too. Mashallah.. Allah put you thru it..He will bring you out of it. :) Dont worry.
awwwwwwww..so nice of you :)
Re: When missing someone...
I'll tell you what NOT to do;
Dont go for a rebound relationship
Dont stalk him/her
Dont get obsessive...maintain your dignity and remember you're moving onwards, not backwards.
Try poetry or anything to occupy your mind, but without a doubt, listening to emotional music etc is great to explore, but will not let you move on.
DO:
Find a good patient friend and talk through with them
Look towards making changes in your life, learn from the experience
Be a better person and remember Allah is preparing you for something so much better Inshallah
Re: When missing someone...
I don't get it....if you miss that person then obvioulsy you care for them right? So then why don't you want to contact them?
Re: When missing someone...
Get yourself a haircut, a new outfit, have a girls' night out and then a sleepover following by tons of chocolate chip ice cream and your favorite movies!
Who needs a man?!
Does eating tons of chocolate chip ice cream help? ![]()
I don't get it....if you miss that person then obvioulsy you care for them right? So then why don't you want to contact them?
Because theres a reason they have broken up (i'm assuming?) and you will ofcourse want to forget that and get back, but if the reason is strong enough, then it means moving on will be difficult..ie contacting them wont allow you to...
Re: When missing someone...
if that person is really special to u den making a call is not a big deal dont thnk that can u give that person 2nd chance bt u r giving urself a 2nd chance to make right decision bt think wisely bcz u better know watz da real situation
yeah coz after this shopping + makeup spree, you will start worrying about your monthly budget instead of “him” ![]()
Re: When missing someone...
^Awww!