because I am a sexual being and want to feel desired by the opposite sex, as well.
if a married woman (early 30's and beyond) gives you any attention, a man can be sure that its bcos she finds him sexually desirable and physically appealing. as women get older their aesthetic tastes in men improve and they scrutinize mens looks more. women are extremely shallow in what they find physically appealing in a man and would only care to notice the top 15% hot/gorgeous men. vast majority of men hardly get any female attention of that sort. you women can be average looking and still be desired by men.. still be checed out, still be flirted with, still elicit a response from men based on your looks alone, still entice men with your bodies.
so why shouldnt i take it as a compliment if married women give me attention?
why should my life be all about pursuing women and supplementing myself with INNER qualities and fufilling some utility **for them to make myself worthy of **a relationship....as if i have nothing inherently desirable about me...as if my looks and body alone has no sexual value to women on their own.
1) just giving me tikka, chargha etc would be appreciated and not considered flirting don't worry
2) but if some married lady wants to flirt, i will not take the flirting seriously unless it is accompanied by some tikka or chargha etc
This goes for all the guppies, as well as for the uncle at the local tandoori shop in case he is reading and getting the wrong idea and getting scared.
because I am a sexual being and want to feel desired by the opposite sex, as well.
if a married woman (early 30's and beyond) gives you any attention, a man can be sure that its bcos she finds him sexually desirable and physically appealing. as women get older their aesthetic tastes in men improve and they scrutinize mens looks more. women are extremely shallow in what they find physically appealing in a man and would only care to notice the top 15% hot/gorgeous men. vast majority of men hardly get any female attention of that sort. you women can be average looking and still be desired by men.. still be checed out, still be flirted with, still elicit a response from men based on your looks alone, still entice men with your bodies.
so why shouldnt i take it as a compliment if married women give me attention?
why should my life be all about pursuing women and supplementing myself with INNER qualities and fufilling some utility **for them to make myself worthy of **a relationship....as if i have nothing inherently desirable about me...as if my looks and body alone has no sexual value to women on their own.
you women dont want men to have that.
But as you said women don't notice except the 15% hot men so if she's married or not, she'd still notice only those 15%, no? And as they are getting older and their aesthetic tastes are improving, it means there would be even less than 15% men they'd find hot/good looking.
Or you're saying once married a woman's eyesight becomes weak?
