things are to be addressed man to man
woman to woman
heart to heart
eye to eye;
what is it that we as humans are emphasizing?
is it the reaction and action that these binaries are able to maintain and share?
is it the social expectedness of these arrangements going well than other ways?
or is it a tried and tested thing?
for instance, in case of eye to eye - it means to really look the other person in the eyes and determine what needs to be negotiated, argued upon and so forth.
share your thoughts around these if you like.
best,
Dushwari