diwana
December 11, 2010, 2:56am
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Re: When is rape not rape?
Peace diwana
Humbly agreed. The most important thing in Islam is to maintain balance in order to provide justice. Just imagine if there was a couple who were not married but since they did have general consent of sex for each other with each other what if on one occasion one member teases the other to the point of urgent sexual attention then walks away? Is this not a case for psychologically leading someone on and not delivering the goods? What crime is that - psychological torture?
Now I’m not lessening the seriousness of bad sexual practice in marriage men and women both do it, for sure the women may end up worse off because a man as stupid as he is tends to resort to physical means to get his needs. Women have great emotional and sensual power they can easily use that to control men, when they decide to deprive their men from it then it can be harmful to them if done with the wrong sort of man, the gentlemen would be patient and eventually divorce the woman if he felt she did not want to be with him again that may not work out in her favour especially if she enjoyed his lifestyle.
I should also mention the man that is uncontrollable. The brute who will rape other women and abuse his own wife, yes living with such a man will be scary and the women should file for divorce as soon as possible. Continuing to live with such men means they continue to give general consent for sex. There are factors of fear to consider but then they are no better in the marriage anyway. ..
Peace 2U2 Psyah!
Yes that would be psychological torture. In marriage (and even outside marriage )playing with someone’s emotions is unethical and just plain and simple wrong.
Agreed with the rest as well.
