Re: When is it time to divorce?
Leading off a scenario posed by another person about a couple being unhappily married, when do you know its time to quit, especially if you have children together? Or should you never quit, no matter how miserable either or both of you are for the childrens sake?
And is there such a thing as 'too late'? I hear this sometimes when a woman whose children have grown up wants to get divorced..and the advice is 'ab kya fida hai?'
Right time for me would be if they are no longer able to love\be intimate with their spouse, is there anything worse than having to have sexual 'relations' with a person they don't even like? I think even without the harming of someone's emotional or physical wellbeing sometimes the best thing is to just walk away than stay in a dead or sham marriage (and no I don't mean just temporarily being bored with ur other half I mean u know deep down u can't and never will be able to love/care for them in the future).
I know lots of people whose parents divorced and not one single one has ever said 'Oh, I wished they had stayed together for our sake' and out of those whose parents are in those dead marriages sticking together for the kids/family/society in general none of them has ever said to me they are grateful their parents have stuck it out, the usual response 'I'll never make the same mistake they did.'