Re: when HUSBAND or WIFE
everyone seems to have missed the point that if forinstance, you were to marry someone half as educated as you are, would you be mentally compatible?
i am pointing to the same WRONG terbiyit, which is a reality in case of men, who are taught auret paee kee jotee heye.
there, together with his ineducation, he is also being given the same rut ineducation at home since his parents are also uneducated.
i am not talking about the families, who have scruples.
their cases are diff. they are able to be considerate and not act out of their delibrate ignorance.