at what point of life they happen to know or come across to say that?
when and why?
girls and guys both can answer this. so we have both mind set results!
according to me
they say that when they met some one, and start asuming that this is the guy they were looking for whole life and planning to live with him for life. ( which is not bad thing at all)
The only thing wrong is they think all this with wrong guy ( who wasnt serious at all)
I am not supporting guys because they are being bad, but most of them think for life only once, most of the time not serious.
and when they find out then they go brand all guys
“all men becomes pigs and same!”
on girls part i think its mistake to give such whole life to guys who they dont actually know best. and dont deserve it. so its fault on their part as well.
I was talking to my wife about the thread where some women objected to being teased and harassed by loiterers in the cities in Pak. And also that one guppan said "I know I invited it, because I was wearing tight clothes". She had such a look of disgust...not at the loiterers, who are basically homosexuals acting out, but towards the guppan who made that comment. I can't say, I blame the MRS. for feeling that way.
^ I see what you are saying, and you are right, there should be no excuse for such behaviour. BUT, I think the person you are referring it to, meant it more along the lines that when such activity is rampant, it is foolhardy to wear something which will attract even more attention. Just like you wouldn't want your Mrs. to be strutting her stuff in umm, uncouth locales.
Sometimes a girl can claim she dislikes men without having the experience of dating one. I think you should understand that sometimes it's the Fathers, Brothers and Unlces etc, who abuse women too. It can't always be justified either, such a small issue as witnessing violence towards another female is also a factor which needs to be considered.
Missy she can claim to dislike men. But that is not the issue here on gupshup. The issue here is immature bratty females tha feel that feminism means to insult the other gender. Instead of focusing on empowering women they aim to de-power men like any other facist ideology by making sure the others are made to suffer instead of making their own gender better off.
why are you trying to make her understand your point if you know shes being immature? Allow her to grow up before to attempt to educate her, or atleast speak in simple terms.
I know personally i have issues with men, but i consider it a serious problem, its not something i like feeling and i sure as hell dont feel this way in an attempt to "de-power" men.
CM - all the big words aside. She is a young woman who is hurt and part of being hurt is being angry for a while.
I am sure that in your life you have said things that you have come to regret or said out of anger. That is more than likely the case here.
My question to you however, is why is this a personal insult to you? Aside from being of the male gender.
If you believe someone is acting childish, dismiss it as such, and continue on with your life. This kind of thing goes nowhere and will change nothing.
My dear this is not about you or PCG. It is about 90% of the GS female population. Education should start when its needed. People should not wait till they are ready because they might never be until they are forced to come to terms with it.
Angry for a while? Its been 2 years. Its simple because as being a male she attributes characteristics which may or may not be in me. I personally abhor ignorant statements made by a narrow-minded individuals and i am allowed to voice that opinion.
no my love, i now think your confused, why would i assume this thread is about me? i dont call men *igs, i cant ever write it correctly...
The authour of the thread claims he wants to discuss why "girls who say all men are *igs" think and say such a thing, and we all know that the only lass who uses that specific term is PCG, therefore this thread is about her.
well ur wife needs to understand the culture first before being disgusted by that comment. a girl can get away with ‘slutty clothes’ in western culture but u are wearing same thing in pak or india, u r inviting attention and harrasement. heck even ur wife wudnt want to walk around in mini skirt on the streets of pakistan.
^ it is an idiotic culture...whether Pak or India. It is a culture that treats women like property and establishes rules and norms to prevent women for achieving their due. It is a culture that embeds the idiocy of such musings, as uttered by our guppan, as such nebulous concepts as hayaa and modesty. Thereby keeping women just below the level of house pets.
when girls say such things, it is because they have no idea how to interact with guys.
this could be either because they were brought up in a segregated way and have been coached to associate guys with love and sex alone; or because of something else about their personality or appearance which gets in the way of normal interactions with guys. when such a girl finds herself in an open society, she runs into confusion, heartache, et al. "why does he talk to me if he doesnt want to marry me! that pig!". "he has a wife, how dare he share a joke with his female colleague!"
god save us from such specimen and deliver them to thy nunnery asap.
well u r an indian, u belong to same culture too, whether or not u practice it thats a different issue. cultures cannot be idiotic because it is what it is due to centuries of social evolution and its because of that its different and no one can do anything about it. what u precieve to be “idiotic” or “oppressive”, is infact a norm in that culture and people are following it because they think it is the right thing to do. just like wearing low necks and swim suites are norm in “western culture” but is precieved as idiotic by others.
hayaa and modesty is related to our culture but how it is represented is different for each woman there. i have female cousins who wear burqa and are full time doctors or professors or pharmacist and persuing succesful careers and on other hand there are those who dont wear hijab but dress modestly and fashionably and are house wives by choice. and they belong to the same culture as well and have the same belief as that guppan. i dont see how they can be labled as house pets. perhaps u should do more research about the culture before u generalize it as idiotic.
