when friendships are no longer plutonic

What kind of benefits are you looking for?

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I Stand With One Leg On Either Side Of It!

They guy KNOWS what he’s talking abt
His job ‘rocks’(litterly)

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Originally posted by samunder:
**Good grief, let me count the times...

And each time I have felt betrayed and disgusted. Here, allow me to elaborate. It wasn't so much the fact that he had feelings; that's natural. It was more that he chose to reveal these feelings that irked the heck outta me. Didn't he think of the consequences, gawd forbid, if I didn't decide to swoon into his arms?! I think it's selfish and juvenile to blurt infatuations when the nature of the relationship has been clear-cut from the start.
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wow, that's exactly how I felt and exactly my point of view! If he knew right from the start couldn't he have held it all inside instead of blurting it out.
but I'm hoping it was infatuation and that he has moved on.

My job stinks (litterly)


There is No Spoon

Ghalib, I don't believe that friendships evolve into love.

There is chemistry (or lack of) that sets a precedent from the start and determines what shape any sort of -ship will take. No matter how clear you make yourself, fellows will think you're fair game if you're single (yeah, yeah, gross generalisations; somebody smack me). I've found most of 'em will want to spend time under the pretense of friendship hoping it'll evolve into something else five months down the road. Me, I'm too stupid to say anything when I notice the initial "signs" and would rather look the other way.

Well if both ppl arent interested then the friendship has to end. Why have a friendship when all it causes is pain for one person and a feeling of mistrust for the other ! Its better you part ways and move on.

Iam waiting to read Cat Womans EXPERTISE in this …somthing tells me CAT has lots lots of experience pushing younger indian boys of S.Africa after calling them friend at 2a.m in the morning & using them…

WHAT ELSE A SINGLE LONELY MUSLIMGIRL TO DO FOR HELP??? make friends with least potential to be husband …like the castrated khoja ghulam of Begums in Moghul & other kingdoms of India …Interesting

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lol! what are u trying to say h.roshan? would u like to join my fan club?

[This message has been edited by cat-woman (edited March 25, 2002).]

You all unislamic womens, shame on you, making friends with the mens. Hellfire is waiting for you, guys and girls should never even talk to each other, or look at each other, until their wedding night, in which case it's ok not only to talk and look, but to touch and enjoy someone you've never met before. Allah said so.

a(ala armughal)ahmed

Control yourself. Right now you should be worrying about the "hellfire" soiling your pants. Depends are expensive.

uhh ok, whatever...

Catty

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Should i become your fan?

Kya milega ban ke ?Jo bina bane nahi mil sakta?

I miss you .Promise if i become your fan you ll come every day ?

Anwayze …what is your advice to Munni ..iam sort of waiting for your answer .Why you have blanks in your post ?

What is your success rate anywayze?


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geez, talk about being persistent!!

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H.Roshan, advice to Muni? About what??

This place has become very boring, I can’t promise that I’ll come that often.

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Cato…

Not Munni but Trinity
Im sorry ..i meant to Trinity ,who started this thread..You havent share your expert advice about plutonic love …area yopu have had extensive experience from Rizwan to one moderetor who shall renmain anonymous for the health of my post ing privileges being intact

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One moderator? I thought it was with the whole lot of them!! Gosh, I must be losing my touch.

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Caty

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So you still avoiding the question .This thread has gone to the 2nd page still Cato is fanning her vanity with ‘hawa hawai’ miss oy e woye woye wooo …

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How do you do it Cato?After all we all run out of excuses after some time.Do you give the line “i like (love) as my brother” routine ?

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P.S. how is your study ? Interrnational Relations?

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Wouldnt it be better to study “personal relation” given your expertise & lack of total 'where in the world is Aligarh"?

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Well, if you do want my personal opinion, Trinity sounds like a ditsy blonde who has nothing better to do in life than wallow in her sad love-life and make it all sound very dramatic.

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I mean really.

Thanks Cat

At the expense of sounding i told you so ,i think you are very correct.I just became curious by 2-3 post of yours being deleted by you ,i wonder what was on your mind…Thanks

Why would a muslim have Trinity nick & batman as icon??

So did you lose any weight & did xenecal prove effectuive?Its good if you eat fatty food ,it will just wont absorb all the fatty icecream,pizza,sandwich you may binge on

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PERSISTENCE :FLOWER2

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ERSEVERENCE

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INSISTENCE …Just to let you know i was here

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