Re: when do you
see, theres no such things as a winner..you cant even describe the attributes a winner has.
life is not about winning or losing. For men, maybe, everythings a game, but not for me.
who's talking about crying? stop being such a baby :p
Re: when do you
Too much time given, not achieved yet, just give up and let somebody else try, my approach
Re: when do you
Why think negative? And I thought I was the biggest pessimist in this world. :halo:
Re: when do you
hmmm uffff Allah so much pessimism???
Well dear, I have gone through some emotional losses in my life and been dealing with them and came out as a winner at other areas of life. I dont believe that life will give us success on all areas.
I have trough situations where I though Why me??And I just never got the answer. I stopped asking and focused instead on moving ahead and create some results in my proffessional life. Through this journey I sometimes found out that moving ahead and trying to forget the emotional loss was not that easy. Tears and depression had been a close fellow in this journey.
And as if that wasnt enough I experienced even more crap and was again thinkin WHY ME?!!However, I had other goals to focus on. I didnt want others to control me in such extent that they could distract me from my goals and make me a looser.
I saw the others as loosers. Only loosers could create such situations as those I have been into. And I wanting to be a winner wouldnt allow them to influence me!Never!
There have SOOOO many moments when I just couldnt take it anymore and thought that this just couldnt get any worse and nothing could improve my situation anymore. I have dealt with the hopelessness. The prayer mat and the talks with Allah were my only survival. And He did listen to me. Today, all my success is what Allah had written for me. Just remember that He tests us in all situations and if we remember Him, He will reward us not only here but also in the Hereafter.
So whatever u r dealing with, just remember that hopeless is not a virtue of winners and you being a winner must not let the loosers effect u in any way:)
May Allah help u inshallah.