Re: when do you decide to give up
I can't relate to it a 100% bc I am not married but the kind of person I am, I may feel like giving up if everything I am doing or everything he is doing is out of a mere compromise and not out of sincerity and happiness.
PS: I said 'everything' bc sometimes we all do SOME things that are out of a compromise and not a 100% happiness but if EVERYthing is being done that way, then i think there may be a problem.
I think I will not be able to put someone through the torture of just HAVING to do things for me instead of WANTING to do things. It's a terrible feeling to know that someone is just doing something out of 'duty' and not love.