Re: When did you first become a mother?
definitely, enjoy the time that you have together, i never understood it when people said it to me but i do now, give yourself at least a year together, and yes you will get the look and questions by aunties wondering why you haven't had a baby yet...you both need to be comfortable with each other as your life literally does a 360 on you when you have kids.
a friend of mine had her first child at 32 and is keen to get her family completed asap..Alhmadulilah she had no problems conceiving and is coping well with motherhood