Re: When a relationship doesn't move anywhere
This is kinda how i felt with my post earlier with my longterm relationship, soo much was going through my mind and all i wanted is for him to understand its important to move on and to show serious commitment by taking action in the form of official enagement (our families have known a wile) so we can move onto wedding planning etc. I wanted him talk to his parents again about us as mines wanted this asap and are just waiting for him to finish uni . Anyhow after giving him time and realising that it's not right to keep bringing it up as he is still studying and has exams to think about, backing off was worth it. I think if u know him well enough you would know or try to find out if he is genuinely serious about marrying you. It might not be the right time for marriage talk as it was the case for me, he could have other stress going on that he hasn't told you. That was just my situation but i think main thing is to talk about ur feelings because u need to communicate about what it is you want. If he truly loves you but doesnt want to settle just yet, has career plans etc. then he should discuss them with you. What Jaanwar has said i agree with and it can defo become a turn off and cause more problems. Maybe you need to give him space to realise your worth and make him realise where you are comming from. I can't really give advice but all i can say is you have to be patient and pray.