Re: When a relationship doesn't move anywhere
Your question contradicts your starting statement. Apparently only the girl is in love and wants to get married. If both were thinking along the same lines, the relationship would have moved ahead.
To make a guy think seriously about the relationship and marriage you need to make sure that the guy isn't in it for the kicks and the benefits without getting too involved. If he is sincere and just moving slowly and cautiously - which is very natural - give the relationship some time to develop and flourish. A girl rushing into emotional involvement and marriage could be a big turn off. Give yourself enough time to get to know each other well, assess compatibility and feasibility and let it go at a natural pace.