How many guys here think that it wouldn’t be appropriate and would be a turn off for you if a girl approached you? If not a turn off would you be okay with that and give her a chance if you liked her back?
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yeah meri taraf sy woh larki farigh hoo gi.
I could make exception under some circumstances. IF i already know her, or I respect her already. Than its a different story. But a girl who I don't know approaching me would lose her chance.
LOL like its ever gonna happen. heheh
this is the most stupidest thing some girl can do to herself,men consider things precious when they had to work for it
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1 girl approached me.. and she was in my badminton team.. i liked the way she approached me.. took my cell number from someone and started messaging me.. and then showed herself at some place... we started dating for a couple of months..then she moved ..hehe.. end of story.
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^ ohmg, how can you say that?
why isn’t it appropriate for a girl to approach a guy? she likes you and wants to take a next step by telling you. isn’t that what a guy does?
i hate people who are like ‘men and woman are on the same level in this day and age’ and yet when a girl approaches a guy it’s thought of as so wrong and ‘ohmggg thas so embarrassing re te te’
jeeez. 
gr8 that u believe in goin for watever you want but im honestly telling you it ends badly,men are suppose to be treated poorly if u tell em you like them they will take you for the best ride of ur life
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^ sometimes it's not about having the best ride of your life. it's about showing that you love them and care for them and that youre committed to them. im sure many men wouldn't wanna be treated badly by the girl they absolutely love and adore.
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but we are used to getting our butt kicked by the girls in starting of relationship. And when ever we make them mad. Its almost normal.
^ sometimes it's not about having the best ride of your life. it's about showing that you love them and care for them and that youre committed to them. im sure many men wouldn't wanna be treated badly by the girl they absolutely love and adore.
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if you closely read my post u ll find that im not talking about taking best rides,there will be no love or commitment if ur gonna go up to the guy n tell him you like him even if he likes you he ll just think ur sort of desperate i dont know about anyone but i wont like it if some guy thinks im desperate
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^okie doke. thanks for clearin that up.
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^^ thts wat i think too, girl wud come across as being desperate and guy wudnt respect her, just use her or wateva, but in this day n age thingz hav changed, but dunno, i think guyz who are quite conservative definately wouldn't approve of it still... hmmm....
hm..well it really depends ..on how well do they know each other etc. its hard to generalize though. cuz every person might take it differently. so should really get to know the guy and then take things from there.
^so she was being the MAN in relation ship lol
hm... well.. i was purposely not being a man ...since her bro was my friend.. and if he knew about this.. i wud have been killed by now..lol
it odes sound sort of weird..bu t then again look how many girls's paretns apporach guyz oparnets for risthas right?..but then thats different i guess
I know some people where the girl has approached the guy first and their relationships are fine so far. This one girl is actually married to that guy now. They were both in the same class. She approaced him by just talking to him as a class mate. She was the first one to talk. But she never told the guy she liked him or anything. Eventually the guy started to like her so things moved forward. It all depends on how you approach the guy I guess.
^ well..that girlzz pretty smart then..she knew how to get him to like her so eventaully hell be the one to run after her..and not vice versa
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sad to read here, some of these opinions...very biased but it might suit some people. best of luck with this unquality.
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*Gosh. The ego on girls. Tum logon ka mun nahi toot jaayega if you tell a guy that you are interested in him. Nakhray hain fazool ke.
Equality of rights my ass. Yahn baat aati hai to fauran mardon ko murgha banadiya jaata hai.*