Re: Whats your advice?
Get a divorce. A mistake all women make is that they can get the man to change. No I am not trolling. The man will not change. Unless he gets an actual brain, barring that this relationship is going to get worse and the children will suffer.
My suggestion leave the bull**** and get down to brass tacts. Get a divorce solve the matter and hopefully she can screw over the dick in the court room.