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to get engage or get married in age of 19 or 20 ???

whenever people that i might get married in next two years they are like so u will be marrying in age of 20 and i am like so what i will be done with my bachlor degree and i have nice handsome job too so whats wrong with it ?? :bummer:

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how will u finish degree that early? :konfused: are you one of them extra clever kids? :slight_smile:

I dont think we could give age limits to when one should marry. it should be a personal preference…whenever you feel you are ready:)

flooding kay sath sath....
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getting married at age 20....tooo younggggg

flooding kay sath sath....
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i am 17 right and i am done with my first year of college and top of it i am doing my bachlor degree in three years

i know it should personal prefrence :slight_smile:

CHUPKESE baji whats wrong if get while u r young at least is better playing around with someone :bummer:

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well sometimes young ppl don't know the difference between love and infatuation. So if u chose to find ur own person and get married make sure u see them past their looks and see their faults. Many times guys don't mature until they are 23 or 24 thats why ppl say that marrying at age 20 (for guys) is too young. But if u think you will be mature when you are 20 and that you can handle it...then good luck.

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i understand the part of the maturity. as long as u r talking about love and everything then sorry i am not the person who love to fallen love and blah blah ai am simple person and want have arrange mrried :slight_smile:

         now new question am i mature ??? :bummer:
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veryyy true. smart boy..ill give u that :slight_smile: if u feel rite bout it..go for it

70% of Chinese students dont return!
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i made the mistake of thinkin the same thing n saying yes...make sure u think bout EVERYTHING n get advice from all ur family n friends b4 u take the step (unlike me) dont have ne regretss...got it?

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oooppssss. I just realised he is a guy :bummer:

hey you should wait. 20 is wayyyy too young. you should be at least 24/25 if you’re a guy :slight_smile: I mean you need to be settled and everything and also guys only mature at about 24/25…any younger than that and they are soooo irritating :stuck_out_tongue:

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you regret it? in what way?

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ofcourse without family advaice i won’t take any step. :slight_smile:

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aren’t some people are mature before there age don’t u think ??? any hope :bummer:

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i think u should still wait. and be CERTAIN that ur making the right decision. after all, its a decision about ur life. sabar ka phal meetha hota he :slight_smile:

*been a year*
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but then the younger you the more you can grow together. Like for example a 30 year old guy would be less likely to change his habbits and has a fixed routine than a 20 year old. A 20 year old is more likely to change.

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hey whats wrong? You don’t seem to be happy? I don’t know what type of situation you are in, but I think that you should talk to someone about it. You can pm me if you want. I just have been seeing a lot of your posts and you seem kinda :confused: .

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Impulse baji- u r right sabar ka pahl meehtha hou tha hey :bummer:

pyrai baji- atleast i have someone to support me :smiley:

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insan.. pheraye khatam kerlo.. itni jaldi kuin haiiiiiiii

flooding kay sath sath....
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why r u not online :hoonh:

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kehi logon ko akal pehle aati hai...oor kehyon ko baad mein..so if ur akal is already there than i guess getting married at 20 is ok :D

flooding kay sath sath....
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yeah man dunno what’s wrong with dat? i mean i got my bachs degree done & workin now and even then mum dad’s got a problem with me gettin engaged !!! whoaa ! what else do i need to do ??? herat hotee hay yaar, bila waja kee tension hay …:confused: