What's wrong with Old Homes?

[Maham]

Re: What’s wrong with Old Homes?

@Mabrook

Maham there’s a phrase “too close for comfort” i bet its not easy to live with ur kids n their spouse and grandkids at old age. what if they don’t say anything clearly but it’s written on there face " A burden" or u want to sleep n rest but ur grandkids r watching tv at high volume or listening to music or just crying for a candy.or mom n dad going out for dates every weekend leaving u to babysit those spoilt lil brats while all u wanna do is take warm bath n rest ur tired, old bones…
keep visiting them occasionally will maintain a better relation than living with them.

Well there are going to be these issues but these are relatively small to otherwise issues of the old parents feeling lonely, rejected, unloved and all of that. There can be no solution to those feelings but you can always work out the issues at home. Also WHY would a grandchild watch a tv at a volume that had disturb his old grandparents? i had hope his parents have instilled that much respect and honour for his family to know to care for their wants and feelings too. And WHY would you not hire a nanny for your kid if you want to go out on dates? How can anyone even think of taking their parents for granted in such a manner. Did your parents think all that while raising you up? NOOOOO. Did they think even for once that leaving you off with some family member for a month could get them a well deserved vacation and time with their partner? I DONT THINK SO.