Since i have entered college and then professional life, i have been told by friends, colleagues about women who think i am interested in them. Even those who’s very thought will put me off have said so (rather claimed so). And when i ask what gave them thsi idea, its always, u know the way he looks at me or the way he talks to me.
I dunno what is in my way of looking or talking that makes them beleive i am interested in them, heck i am not.
You have that too? I'm a female, and a few times guys who are not my type at all have claimed that I was interested in them.
I've only been in love only once in my life when I was 17, he was a gora and no Muslim and not in love with me, so nothing happened between us, that's it. I've never really been in love with anyone else after that, despite being married off to my cousin at the time. A few years ago liked a person a lot and thought I was perhaps finally in love (also a non-Muslim gora, go on, judge me... also not in love with me), but that didn't even come close to the feelings I had for the person when I was 17, so I don't think that really was falling in love. For the rest, nothing. Right now I'm in love with nobody. That's weird when I think about it. Now I should be asking myself what's wrong with me. Shouldn't people my age be in love with someone?
Various people have thought I was somehow romantically interested in them, just because I was friendly... but when you become unfriendly people hate it too. No matter what you do, if you are friendly or unfriendly, people will always get the wrong ideas about you.
Perhaps the people you talk to, aren't used to males and females talking nicely to each other without being romantically involved. Many people don't understand that males and females can be friends without any romance at all between them.
anyways, srsly. Women tend to get the wrong idea sometimes abt guys being interested in them. Happened to me so many times. Where I work this pakistani security guard used to come everyday to talk to me. I started feeling like he is interested and my fiance told me its all in my head.. he said u girls think everyone is interested in u :P
You have that too? I'm a female, and a few times guys who are not my type at all have claimed that I was interested in them.
I've only been in love only once in my life when I was 17, he was a gora and no Muslim and not in love with me, so nothing happened between us, that's it. I've never really been in love with anyone else after that, despite being married off to my cousin at the time. A few years ago liked a person a lot and thought I was perhaps finally in love (also a non-Muslim gora, go on, judge me... also not in love with me), but that didn't even come close to the feelings I had for the person when I was 17, so I don't think that really was falling in love. For the rest, nothing. Right now I'm in love with nobody. That's weird when I think about it. Now I should be asking myself what's wrong with me. Shouldn't people my age be in love with someone?
Various people have thought I was somehow romantically interested in them, just because I was friendly... but when you become unfriendly people hate it too. No matter what you do, if you are friendly or unfriendly, people will always get the wrong ideas about you.
Perhaps the people you talk to, aren't used to males and females talking nicely to each other without being romantically involved. Many people don't understand that males and females can be friends without any romance at all between them.
Why do you always fall in love with a white person?
You have that too? I'm a female, and a few times guys who are not my type at all have claimed that I was interested in them.
I've only been in love only once in my life when I was 17, he was a gora and no Muslim and not in love with me, so nothing happened between us, that's it. I've never really been in love with anyone else after that, despite being married off to my cousin at the time. A few years ago liked a person a lot and thought I was perhaps finally in love (also a non-Muslim gora, go on, judge me... also not in love with me), but that didn't even come close to the feelings I had for the person when I was 17, so I don't think that really was falling in love. For the rest, nothing. Right now I'm in love with nobody. That's weird when I think about it. Now I should be asking myself what's wrong with me. Shouldn't people my age be in love with someone?
Various people have thought I was somehow romantically interested in them, just because I was friendly... but when you become unfriendly people hate it too. No matter what you do, if you are friendly or unfriendly, people will always get the wrong ideas about you.
Perhaps the people you talk to, aren't used to males and females talking nicely to each other without being romantically involved. Many people don't understand that males and females can be friends without any romance at all between them.
No, but I’m trying to fall in love now with someone, hopefully I can fall in love with a Pakistani now. This time I want to marry out of love insha Allah, with someone who is more suitable, though I wouldn’t mind if I’d find someone from a different race or culture who might be suitable. I don’t know, I just want to fall in love with someone. Once I get my diploma, then I want to think about marriage. But I only want a love marriage now. Being in love is such a fantastic feeling, even when the love isn’t returned. :jano:
Well, since I want a love marriage now, then this time I’d better fall in love with someone who is really suitable for me and someone who loves me too. I’m only 32 and still have the time to find someone myself this time.
I think we’re too much off topic now. Hm, that seems to happen quite often when I’m having a conversation!