What's wrong with desi men?!

[Theorist]

Re: What’s wrong with desi men?!

@Princess121

Hmm I kinda agree with NomiCA on this one… In that the problem with desi men (and all men in general concerning their treatment of women) is generally speaking that we as women allow them to treat us this way. If the women of the world all taught their sons the real worth and value of a woman then perhaps the world would be better place.

First and foremost mothers should stop favouring their sons over their daughters. They should stop allowing their sons be ‘served’ constantly by their sisters. All children, whether male or female, should not consider any work ‘beneath’ them - things like cleaning, washing, cooking, serving, helping others etc. Teach the sone the value of eduacation, then teach him the value of an educated woman. Not only by words but by actions - if the mother uses her skills and knowledge learnt to be productive in the family and in the community it’ll teach her children that an educated woman is not a bad thing!

Theorist, honestly I feel your frustrations everyday!! I see inequalities and injustice in people’s metalities and it irritates me beyond belief. And I know I can’t do anything to change the mentalities of the men (and woman!!!) around me, but inshallah inshallah I have hope in the future generation. At least I’ll start it off with my own kids.

Very true! It just bugs me a lot when someone here says something so wrong so casually. I don’t know why it bothers me so much!

I agree with what you are saying. But see the thing is, when you teach young girls ke tumhara shohar tumhara mizaji khuda hai, I can imagine them wanting to treat them like kings. I don’t just blame men for it, i blame our entire society but it had to start with someone, no? A woman would not willingly want to go through all the crap that’s thrown in her face.

Isn’t it about time we change the way we think? Why can’t men understand our issues today? Is it really that hard? We sacrifice our entire lives for them, our parents, our lifestyle yet they don’t seem to get what the problem is. That’s ridiculous!