Re: What’s wrong with desi men?!
It isn’t as cut and dry as you put it. A woman who has been ordered all her life first by parents then by her husband and inlaws will want to teach her girls how to handle those situations. She won’t teach her how to AVOID it altogether. AND No it’s not just her mother that thinks about getting her married off, it’s her father and her grandparents too.
It’s a vicious cycle of abuse. She was probably abused by her inlaws too. She learns her tactics from her mother inlaw and inflicts the same pain of her Daughter in law. Where did this all start? It all goes back to the fact that women are simply controlled by men. They have decided women’s fate to stay in a 4-walled house and make babies.
And fathers don’t want a boy? Are you serious? They are the ones that care most about having a son. Who else would they carry their legacy?
Yes it does!
how would he know if he doesn’t even spend much time at home? The truth is a desi woman doesn’t get to call her own shots until she is old and has turned into another evil Mother in law.
O sure, he will be like the 2nd coming of Jesus 
I kid He will be a wonderful man, a sensitive, fair, and strong man. My girls will be sensitive, fair, and strong too. 