So I went to get some tea at the school canteen and a desi girl was trying to get some for herself but the attendant didn’t know English but only the local language. I translated for her and she asked if I was Indian. I told her no, I am from Pakistan. She started asking some questions about this country (she is new here) and a queue started forming behind us. Eventually I asked if she has time and would like to sit down and have tea with me. She gave me ‘THAT’ angry look and asked “Why do you want to have tea with me?”. I told her I don’t ‘want to’ and proceeded to the dining area.
Why do desi girls think that any guy trying to be friendly is hitting on them?
Hmm i get what u mean, like im a chick but i dnt appreciate girls like that, talking is fine etc etc as soon as u highlight the sitting down or having lunch thing they think ur trying to crack on to them haha comon girls get a grip every guy who is trying to b nice isnt interested there just being friendly not asking for your number
** Eventually I asked if she has time and would like to sit down and have tea with me**. She gave me 'THAT' angry look and asked "Why do you want to have tea with me?". I told her I don't 'want to' and proceeded to the dining area.
Why do desi girls think that any guy trying to be friendly is hitting on them?
Oh yes, cause usually asking a girl for tea means we want to discuss Mout ka manzar and merne ke baad kya ho gaa wali book.
Please dont mind us desi girls, years of enduring gender segregation plus lack of steady interest from opposite sex, has robbed us of social skills when it comes to interacting with men. Actually wait, its true for most of our men too.
I have a few guy friends but if I generalize my experience with most of the guys its like, you accept an add request from someone on linkedin (which is a professional networking website) and they think you became ‘friends’ with them. If you accept a friend’s request from them you have actually become really good friends with them.
The other day a guy asked me for my personal fb id (he was already added on an fb account which is shared by a couple of colleagues) and i mentioned that’s for friends and family and his comments were, but we are friends too, right? I said, no we are not friends because I don’t know you. He was like you know my name, where I work and that I live in xyz city.
So is that all you need to know about a guy to be friends with them? If that’s the case, I am best friends with hundreds of guys then because I know a lot more than this.
arent u talking about just those few devdas who fall in true love with you within minutes into a conversation…
I have yet to see such desperados here in us.
So I went to get some tea at the school canteen and a desi girl was trying to get some for herself but the attendant didn't know English but only the local language. I translated for her and she asked if I was Indian. I told her no, I am from Pakistan. She started asking some questions about this country (she is new here) and a queue started forming behind us. Eventually I asked if she has time and would like to sit down and have tea with me. She gave me 'THAT' angry look and asked "Why do you want to have tea with me?". I told her I don't 'want to' and proceeded to the dining area.
Why do desi girls think that any guy trying to be friendly is hitting on them?
Because they are stupid.
Because their daddies told them never to trust any boys.
Because they like getting attention but hate it admit it so they throw in an angry comment just to distract you.
Btw, she really did want to sit and chat with you, but you should have asked her for coffee...then u'd have sounded cool and Amreekanized and she may have accepted your innocent offer.
. Lady why can’t you say No? It ain’t that hard?
If that’s the case, I am best friends with hundreds of guys then because I know a lot more than this.
