Re: What's with this mentality?
I think that it's easy to say don't blame yourself. I don't know why women do it. I went through stuff in the past and I can say that while in my head, i know that none of it was my fault. . . i kept thinking sometimes what if i had done t his differently? what if i had done that differently? ? ? I should've been smarter, better, etc.
but now i know he was just an @rsshole.
I like how i feel much better now