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decent bhai: :nono: I am seriously discussing topic. aren’t you?
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^ oh ok. No I am also serious. TLK...
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with sta or tlk 
What's with men?
Naa Alhamdullilah none so far, read a few blog entries and was wondering when in such a situation what would help melt the ice :)
So far it's: affirmation, intimacy and food, I guess.
An I too agree with TLK bhai & D6C
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just look at all these grown ups
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Naa Alhamdullilah none so far, read a few blog entries and was wondering when in such a situation what would help melt the ice :)
So far it's: affirmation, intimacy and food, I guess.
An I too agree with TLK bhai & D6C
and some men just need time & space
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Usually with women/wives, what ever the BIG issue is, a simple hug, kiss or even a genuine sorry subsides all the anger and makes things settle down for a go ahead of proper communication for sorting out.
What are those things with men/husbands? What can diffuse their anger and ego and positively bring them to a compromise or solution? I don't think a hug or a sorry really works with them much.
You could try a cold bucket of water.....it might just cool their anger.
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For men who love their wives the way a wife can get her husband to listen to her is by her bringing up all the favours that she does for him, makes him feel like a horrible cave dweller for his raising the contention in the first place and she then goes on a mood for five days, until he keels and can't take it anymore ...
For less fortunate wives ... They have to pretend to totally agree with their husbands, then gradually get their way either without his knowledge or through systematic brainwashing.
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Yes women get over it with a hug or sorry but then men do not make issue out of small things like women do (serious note). In other words women get into and and over it easily and quickly unlike men.
Different men have different remedies for this from words of affirmation (as TLK suggested) to giving-space-&-time. From intimacy to food and what not. There is no one formula fix all solution.
And then we say, Women are complicated.
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this thread is dumb. 
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d6c = sk = pl 
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Sex. Plain and simple. Ok well not plain and simple all the time :D
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What are those things with men/husbands? What can diffuse their anger and ego and positively bring them to a compromise or solution?
Handcuffs and a feather duster.
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and some men just need time & space
THIS!!
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Sex. Plain and simple. Ok well not plain and simple all the time :D
Handcuffs and a feather duster.
If only it were that simple :(
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to diffuse anger of a man in any relation… make sure the other party keeps QUITE and walks away
us ka gussa thanda ho jaey ga, to khudi line per aa jaey ga 
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they need time and space! true!!
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Time and space is the hardest but the most effective one. They usually come back on track after a few days themselves.
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and another thing important is that when they come back on track, do not automatically assume that THEY were on mistake. Many times men want to leave things behind and move on no matter who was on mistake…
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totally agree