Uff… thats what I am talking about. My mom is already starting to stress on this topic as well… we know that they are not going to ask us for anything… but we already know that there are expectations in the air. I have figured this out simply because now a days my inlaws are buying boat loads of gifts for my SIL’s in laws. 
So obviously people that buy and give tons of gifts probably expect it too being the larkay walay???
And its the same situation… so many khalaas … phupoos…agay se unkey bachay..and then bachay ke bachay!!! I literally don’t even know how many immediate family members my fiance has. The whole thing is so ridiculous.
I mean… where is the limit??? I wish it would atleast just be gifts to immediate inlaw family. … the whole gift giving to the extended in-law family thing is crazy. Its too much man.