Yea exactly… u’v nailed it. But its so not cool that larkay walay do not have this feeling when they do not give gifts. They are not worried about looking cheap or what ppl would say. 
So I def give props to all those families who give gifts to the girls side if they are larkay walay b/c that is not the norm for sure.
As nice and kind hearted as a lot of people are today… Guy’s side not demanding stuff or even saying don’t give us anything…It is still so strange to me that in most families and in most situations… it is a one-way gift giving from the girls side to the guy’s side. It takes away even more so from the fact that gift giving is truly done in the spirit of love and celebrating.
… i mean where’s the luv from the larkay walay??? I mean… forget presents…the girls parents are freaking give their daughter to them!!! … and what do the ladkhi walay get ??? 