Whats this new trend of pakistani women smoking?

[princessjojo]

Re: Whats this new trend of pakistani women smoking?

@CuteGurl

My imam once said a beautiful thing tht stuck by me and no matter how much the dynamics of the world changes this remains true.. when a woman learns something she passes it to her generations..so when u have a choice to educate someone in ur family a girl or a boy…chose a gurl cuz she is the future and her knowledge will spread faster than a man’s..

if im not rong similar is also in Quran..following this theory be it good habits/ bad habits it applies..if a woman has a bad habit it’ll spread in her coming generations.

A man is usually outside for work tht is why he may or not expose alot of his bad habits to his kids while a woman nurtures her kids and family, a kid will immediately pick up on bad breath, cig in her purse or even seeing her smoke at home..

Think of urself as a smoking mother for a sec and think isn’t it worse…its not sexist, its a fact!

That’s a nice sentiment that you have, but what makes you think the child will not pick on the fact that mom is condoning dad’s smoking/bad habits because he is a man? You think children don’t learn from that? Why do you think boys from the average desi family often have double standards ingrained in their mind set? Because that’s what they grew up watching. Kids really do see how their parents behave, even subtle behaviors…they don’t have to smell smoke on their dad.