diwana
May 22, 2011, 12:58am
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Re: Whats this new trend of pakistani women smoking?
im shocked to see some of the answers here, when did become so ‘OK’ for women to smoke and when did it shift to a petty issue? y hav ppl become so numb to it..
NO ONE mentioned the consequence it has on the child , the family
NO ONE mentioned tht once things like these get in ur mind it kina becomes ‘OK’ u lose ur boundary or the line becomes vague somewhere ths when affairs, being batamez with husband etc may also arise (not always but dunt u feel boundaries become unclear?)
It like to contradict my very close frnd barbiecue and ask her to define her audience a lil bit, i mean look around on this forum and jus peak into the wedding forum..see the number of posts their. To tell u the truth most pakistani women are taking the easier way out, they study and get married ( not all but alot) its definitely changed since our mothers time they got a chance they grabbed it and became teachers, nurses, air hostesses and now pakistani gurls at 17 plan their lavish weddings and thn coming to Life1 and complaining abt their MILs.
Im disappointed here cuz no one even touched upon the issue..face it WOMEN SMOKING IS MORE SERIOUS its not a sexist comment. You teach anything to a women she carries and spreads it to her generations unlike men.
Its not abt huka or cigrattes c’mon ppl…u all missed the point completely!!!
Although i got my answer it’s such a done to death/seen to death thing tht it has moved to the petty side now. It’s like getting a tan (just an example dun catch my neck for it) its such a norm tht its not even worth discussing or pointing out, yes its bad but we have ‘bigger issues’.
Trust me this is a bigger issue, this generation on most men have turned out complete waste of existence and i blame the pakistani way of upbringing men get in our society by making him the king. This was a mistake everyone ignored from our parents generation which resulted in educated jahils in our society (who were sent to UK with all their parents money, got a fancy degrees came back and behind closed doors hit their wife).
This is going to have horrible impact on the coming generation because we have labelled in our mind as ‘petty’!
Do you really think mentioning the ill effects of smoking including the bad effects on the newborn babies to hell bent waana-be liberal and feminists would do any benefit?
