Most people have access to a mirror on a daily basis and already know what they look like. People know if they look big, petite, tall, short, thin, chunky, fair, dark, tired, etc. Why others feel the need to point your physical attributes out for you as if you’re clueless…I’ve no idea.
The next time that your nand says, “tum apni umar say bari lagti ho”…
Fire back with:
“Tumhari personality aisi hai k tum apni umar se bahut bahut bahut choti lagti ho.” (you’re calling her immature)
And when she snaps at you saying, “Kya matlab hai tumhara?”
Cover yourself and “innocently” respond by saying:
“I mean aap ki personality bahut bahut bahut youthful hai.” 