Honestly that’s why I feel like desi people feel like they can get away with murder at desi weddings, because no one ever says anything to them. If it were my wedding, and someone from my side of the family pulled anything like that, I’d make sure I’d embarass the hell out of them by making a scene about it. I couldn’t do the same for my in-laws but I’m sure my fiance would instead. Then maybe people will change!