i cant figure it out, whats the point in it if an Ex colleague of mine, he has just switched his job 2 months back, who is married, dad of two, calls me certain times, and talk all abt hanky panky stuff, more over he has now started saying that he miss me so much, and he keep missing me all day, and night …:S, i don’t know how to reply him and what to say him, he says i love,… and ask me to give the answer in return…:S i just say “i don’t love anyone”.
its just too weird, now i am just ignoring his calls, i don’t know why he is after me, i never had such lengthy conversations with him wen he was here in my ofc. it was no more than “salam, dua/ greetings”
i am now getting irritating of him, may be he got in his mind that my mother recently passed away, and my elder sis got married, n i am the one left so he can easily get his way to me… :s i dont know what to do and how to deal. :S
hmm why dnt u just tell him to shut up and 2 nt bother you again?
wat's with this "i dnt love anyone...."? why dnt u just tell him u r nt interested in him n he shud shup stop bothering you.
i think ur perhaps nt sure of it yrself n maybe r enjoying the attention otherwise there is no way a grown up person can't make the other shut up about these things!
No offense but it's your job to tell him all this, he isn't going to get the message subliminally. Just tell him to never call you again and if he insists, threaten to tell his wife. The End.
guys try this on impressionable young women/girls all the time. The girl feels special and falls for the guy only to realise the guy does this all the time to any number of women all the time.
tell him if you cant stop thinking about me divorce your wife then we can start on a level playing field.
oh come on. block caller. if youre in pakistan this is super easy to do.
to answer your question, the point of it is that you are receiving his calls and thereby giving him indulgence. hes looking for spice, you are allowing him some. if not you, itll be another person he calls.
