Re: What’s the best way to get a man…
Sorry to hear that, globalgal. Now that you’ve shared more about the subject, I can see why it must be distressing to you that they don’t get along. Your hubby was certainly acting stubborn and should NOT have gotten insulted but don’t forget that it is a rather sensitive matter for him and his relatives. IMO, perhaps you should not have shared it with your friend and their family about it but that’s something done and past so not much you can do about that. You’re just going to have to give your hubby time to get over it, if he doesn’t though, don’t feel guilty or upset. Probably shouldn’t keep trying to get him to make amends by begging him either because it’s something he needs to do himself! He needs to work on not taking offense about it… You can try to help him work on it but cooking his fave meals, crying, doing all his fantasies in the bedroom is not likely gonna help too much in this matter, in fact it might actually keep making him act this way longer (for the special attention you’re giving him). Be someone he see can eye to eye with and can stand shoulder to shoulder with, in other words someone he respects and sees on the same level as him so what you say will start to matter to him so he’ll respect your need to spend time with your friend n their family. First I think you should apologize to him that you regret sharing it with your friend and his/her family (if you haven’t already done so). Best of luck to you.