my mother in law to be, has asked me what colour and design i want for waleema and im confused…is a sharara good, or lengha or salwar kamize and what culourss…should it be darker than wedding or lighter or bolder or what…im fair skinned, and only 5ft 3 so whats the best thing for me..and size 12…not a skinny girl…so help eeee
Hey Salam
Congartz..:)
hun it all depends on what you want. personally valima colours are usually light. so i would suggest you go for somthing lite.. and in regards to what you want. i think u shud wear a langa... not too bharii coz valima shud b less barawa den barat.. in my opinion anyway.... :)
yeh definetly a lighter shade so you get two very dfferent looks etc
i think u should wear a lenga too it dusnt have to be simpler if you want it bling go for it ccos the lighter shade will giv u a totally different look especially if you go for more contemp make up
light green (pista), light blue (sky/baby), pink, silver, white/cream, peach/apricot... are nice shades, with your fair skin anything will go... good luck!
What is the color of your wedding outfit? Is it a gharara, sharara, lengha, etc?
I think you should wear a gharara/sharara/lengha or a churidaar with an angharka or peshwaaz or something, not a shalwar kamiz, unless you REALLY want to.
im going for red on my wedding day and decided to go lighter on walima… most likely gna go for a beigy creamy lehnga with a blue kameez and blue border dupatta and lehnga coz i dnt wna look washed out.. the blue im going for is very similar to the pic below but slightly richer in colour!! wanted a different look frm the wedding day… hope it helps! =)
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yeh ok so not salwar kamiz then....so whats new at the moment.....im thinking red on wedding day probly lengha or sharara...dnt know man too much to do...
erm.. yea u cud go for a sharara or gharara (dno the diffrnce reali) or a lehnga or a saree!!! that wud be diffrnt! i think a while back slightly longer kameez on a lehnga were in.. think that trends changed now but i loved it wen i saw them cum out, was thinkin of doin that myself coz i think the longer kameez gives a slightly slimmer illusion to ppl but if ur short that myt not be such a good thing coz u myt look tiny where lehngas concernd but i myt be wrong.. u cud always wear killer heels to go with it.. wen u getin married? generally ppl stick to lehngas tho...
in august.....and am hopeing to be size 10 ( am 14 ish at the moment) so dnt wana give wrong measurements, but im getting there, im not sure what to get really. and if we do order something now, and if its too loose on the day can they alter it?HOW LONG do you need/time wise to give them to alter it
arnt brides always going for alterations? lol if its in pakistan i dnt think it shud take that long to get it altered give it a week b4 coz im sure tailors can get it dun in a day or two!! yea im hopin to drop a size too im a 10 at the moment (dwn frm a 12) hopefully HOPEFULLY wana b an 8 but it seems so unrealistic lol!! jus gna aim to drop down to 50kilos coz im big boned neway think il look dodgy if i loose too much! but yea bak to the topic! if ur gettin married abroad then like duno ware ur based but herer in london designers are understanding enuf to know that girls always loose weight b4 the weding so they expect ppl to cum in for alterations! wen u choose ur outfit talk to ur tailor and they shud tell u how much notice theyd need to make an alteration, really tho i dnt think its that long... congrats btw ur gettin married 2 months b4 me im so nervous!!
so how long did it take u to go from 12 to 10.....well well done..wish i was 10....im a friggin 14.....but ive got 14 weeks...and its all planned out so if i do it strictly i could lose 2 stone....should be 10 then or even a 12 dnt mind as long as i excerice my stomach....any ideas on how to tone that?APART FROM CRUNCHES. do they work.
OMG stomach flab (ew!) is still my problem!! the only way to get rid of fat is by exercising coz even if u do crunches ur really just toning ur abs and toned bit wont show untill fats been shed!! if i dint have a belly id be fine with my weight but i do thats y im tryna lose sum more! i got engaged one an a half years ago so i had plenty of time to lose it... joined the gym for 6months so i guess it took me 6months bt i dint actually stop my eating habits, id eat bare takeaways and go like 4times a week max most of the time it was 3 but this summer its gna be more intense for me coz i aint got that amount of time left!! stick to ur schedule, jus remba the more weight u lose the more confident u'll feel on ur wedding day, im jus dreading the night to be honest thats y im doin it lol, wudnt care otherwise :( whats a girl to doooo!! good luck with ur schedule!! ..x..
im dreading it to.....but not the night, im dreading all the women going hai yeh to ab tak moti haiweight lose nahi kiya etc etc why isnt she smart like the other girls......godddddd id rather die of starvation then remain a fatty and get abused.....so wish me luck...
when you are short and not in the greatest shape a mermaid cut is not for you, same goes for those lenghas with longer tops bc it'll show how short you are. also i'd go for a lighter color, i'd get sharara pants to create a diff look bc i'm pretty sure on your wedding day you are wearing a lengha. also chose a good hair style bc sometimes brides pull all their hair back and when you have a round face that's not the best way to go. if worst comes to worst just wear a corset under your valima outfit, not only will it hold your stomach in and give you a better shape but when your groom sees you in that he'll be taken away. lol