long shirts (past knees) with trouser pants or capris, shirts with high collars/sherwani type, jamavar looks nice for weddings, chooridar
Check out She Magazine(just type in google) their archives can give you some ideas of designs and kaam. There are some ideas you can get from gupshup bazaar also. Facebook has a bunch of groups of designers..nayna, urban design concepts, hsy, karma, rouge, sobia nazar, maria b..you can get ideas of colors, cuts, and designs from there . There's a thread here with a list of designers and their websites too.
I came back from pakistan about 3 weeks ago and got a lot of ideas about color combinations, kaam designs, fabrics from all of the above. I printed out pics i liked and although i didn't get exact copies of designer wear, i got a good idea of trends.