What's harm in being single?

I just do not want to marry or get in to any kind of relationship.(But some of my relatives are busy ion finding a girl for me,but I have told them I do not prefer to get married ever in my life time)..Many say,in our society it looks weird.

I wonder what’s harm in being single.

Re: What's harm in being single?

if you wont be screwing around then your a sick man.

Re: What's harm in being single?

That's a western thought.But does it need to be true?

its not a western thought.....its human nature dude.......how old are you going to be until you have sex? 20? 25? 27? 30? 40 year old virgin?

im not against marriage....but i understand where you are coming from.

Re: What's harm in being single?

I am 29,live in India.

ok 29 year old virgin.... ok thats not bad... my cousin is around 28.. but, you going to want to have sex badly very soon.

Re: What's harm in being single?

Till this date I have not felt it's need and may not be feeling it also in future.It may be because of my ideology. You may be living in America/Europe/Australia ,and your idea may be something different. Does sex have to anything with age?other than in kids?

A lot of people have lead single lives.....nothing wrong......if you are not inclined that way.....as long as you stay celibate.
is that your intention?

Re: What's harm in being single?

Nothing wrong with being single.
Do what pleases you.

Are you asexual ?
Asexuality - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

There is no harm. But when the right person comes along, your thinking will begin to change. Trust me.

Re: What’s harm in being single?

being single is another blessing :cb:

Re: What's harm in being single?

if u r muslim then one reason is enough to get married.

**its farz on muslim
its sunnah

**n for muslim there is nothin greater than farz n sunnah

Re: What's harm in being single?

I think a lot more people are single than people realize. My neighbor is around 60 years old, she never married and seems quite content in her decision.

Nothing wrong in being a single.

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^may be she only pretend to be content, but not in reality......

n i believe Allah ke hadood cross ker k koi b satisfied nahi ho sakta, n i pray k nah he kabhi satisfied ho...phir chahy mey hud he kiun naa hoon

Re: What's harm in being single?

There is no harm in being single.

jab bazaar mein doodh miltaa hai to ghar mein bhainsh laane ki kyaa zaroorat hai

Re: What's harm in being single?

There are only some possibilities why you wudnt wanna get married..

You're either unsure of urself.. , you have not accomplished what u wanted so far?.. physical incompatibility or sharp decrease in sexual interest?(though, i dont mean being married is all about sex)...you do not earn enough to have a family and feed them?

Would u not want someone who cares for you?.. someone whose always there for u when u're in need?.. do u not have a desire for a life companion?.. u're 29 and at this age you feel like u'll be like that forever...just in a blink of eye, ull pass ur youth age and start moving into an age when you'll start getting sick often.. who then will you rely on ..other than your wife?.. when one is mature and know whats right and wrong the responsibility of parents is over.... what kind of life will you be living man?.. when u get married and see ur kids playing around.. trust me.. the kind of feeling u get can never be exchanged for any other feeling..

Just a thought of me being with my life companion with kids is enough for me to marry...

paa ji.. aik baar kora ghoont kar ke bhains le aao.. doodh muft he muft.. ;) or wese bhi.. bhuraape mein kon kitna doodh pee leta hai?.. tab to bhains ki zyaada zaroorat parti hai.

Re: What's harm in being single?

There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. You will live happily and probably live longer than most married people.