What's going on?

goodnews · January 30, 2009, 10:21pm

**J****is ko joot akat rah ahu na jooty ky kattny ke dard ka andaza sirf os ko hota hai. Koi or nahi laga sakta woh andazana woh joota pehan sakta hai, na hi woh dard seh sakta hy.aap or ham tu sirf tont ker sakty hain or kuch nahi:)

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goodnews · January 30, 2009, 10:22pm

Allah ka shukar kero is per:chai:

kali_billi · January 30, 2009, 10:47pm

true!

firenze · January 30, 2009, 10:56pm

are you conveying a message to some one ..

Sara516 · January 30, 2009, 11:50pm

Slow acceptance of divorce is a blessing and a curse. it's a true blessing for those who are stuck in truly horrible situations with no other way out.. but at the same time, if ppl have stuck in the back of their minds "there's a way out", that might prevent them from putting their all into the relationship. Honestly I think it's better this way..that there's a choice. After that its' up to the individuals to work as hard as they can towards preserving their marriage

unthinkable · January 30, 2009, 11:57pm

People getting less tolerant and divorces getting common are the signs of doomsday.

kurripunjaban · January 31, 2009, 12:26am

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The whole concept of 'A succesful marriage is based on compromise' has been flung out of the window. Thats why we have so many divorces, back in the day no matter how unhappy someone was in a marriage they'd change themselves to make it work. Now, men are independent, women are independent so there's nothing forcing them to stay together.

Mirch · January 31, 2009, 1:44am

toh joota khareenay say pahlay check karleena chah-e-a k katkhana jota hay , ya araam dah. :halo:

Niksik · January 31, 2009, 1:46am

Meri behen, koi taunt nahi ker raha. Of course there are serious issues that happen and marriages have to be broken, but my thread is more about the marriages that actually remain intact but with the wrong attitude.

Let_Uz_Chat · January 31, 2009, 2:12am

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I know of many old school marriages that didn't last and the respective couples went their separate ways.

Skittlez · January 31, 2009, 4:59am

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too many ex bfs and gfs to compare current spouses to when things go wrong.

wondergurl · January 31, 2009, 5:02am

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^ bingo!

Niksik · January 31, 2009, 7:34am

You will be surprised that things there are getting pretty nasty too. In fact many new girls that come from back home have this mentality of me me me... where do they get it from all of a sudden?

firenze · January 31, 2009, 7:36am

Coz of sudden jump from closed society, less resources, less show off ... to ... saat sumundar par, with so-called good life style... That can be a main reason !

Niksik · January 31, 2009, 7:39am

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Udher toh bohot show off hota hai... especially in upscale, upper class areas where people's goal is to impress the others... women spend all their timr in competition with each other.

firenze · January 31, 2009, 7:41am

That's why i wrote less resources, closed society.. i mean mostly who move to American/Europe are not from upscale families, so west is like wonderland for them... and rest you know. But thank God i haven't seen this problem in my family yet, just heard stories about it !

Niksik · January 31, 2009, 7:45am

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I've heard stories too, but quite a few.

firenze · January 31, 2009, 7:46am

ooh so you are not like them :p

Niksik · January 31, 2009, 7:47am

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Gina · January 31, 2009, 9:05am

People expect a lot, do little and hardly reciprocate!