I want someone who does not prefer housework over lovemaking but… :bummer:
I made chicken n rice today and my friends tasted it and one of em was like “tu bari acchi bivi hoye gee!!”…and someone else said too that I’d make a great wife, but that i’d bore the guy to death, i dun understand wat that person meant 
Well someof us are wife material and some of us are girlfriend material. Maybe you;d be teh perfect wife..running aorund and being supportive..but you're not exciting and imaginative..you dont command attention and therefore your husband will easily take you for granted..he'll compliment the food and eye the next door neighbours wife :D
hmmmmm
goes to show how wwell that person knows me 
if I get married, I will make my man the happiest person in the world. i will treat him like a king. If he doesn’t do the same for me, treat me like a queen, then I will make him the most miserable man in the world and wish he had never been born. 
okayyyyyy....:p
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okayyyyyy....:p
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too unrealistic and naive?
I can only dig some truth in Sarah’s posts..rest are just full of BS..not even close to what a real man would want in his wife..!!
A refrigerator full of bears.. ?? 
hELLO!!! I can so imagine a couple like that..A woman running around the house wearing nothing but lingerie..and of course..smoking!!.. :yukh: and what could you expect from a guy who wants his wife to do nothing but have the bear ready..!! ..yes..you can imagine!!..(yup..a couch potato)
errmm.. An ideal wife is the one who loves to have sex with you??? i can only hope YOU ARE THE ONLY SHE WOULD LOVE TO HAVE SEX WITH… o well..while she is with you under the sheets, she will be fantasizing having THAT with the top model of the year..!! sheesh!!
GOOD LUCK!!
aaaa okay!! an ideal wife who hates to eat and loves to cook..?? whaa?? are you planning on marrying an anorexic chick?..well let me tell you this..she will be sick and tired too often that you will be the one doing chores around the house..!! muahaha!! 
I am so-very dissapointed..!! 
yeah and they say girls are nakhray baaz.
:k: yup!!
I want a girl who is a freak in the bed and the greatest cook. When she is around other men, I want her to wear a burkha, but when she is around me, I want her in errrrr, use your imagination kiddos.
oh gosh girls I thought you knew anything Madhanee says, dont’ take seriously
heck if i’m in the mood, ill greet him wearing lingerie wats wrong wit that? i love to cook (and eat 
) and if i’m gonna be the one to stay home and take care of house all day while he works to support both of us, then yeah ill be a good wife and make him some food…being traditional ain’t the worst thing in the world girls. It’s only bad if both expect the other to do what they do without any gratitude and take each other for granted.
sounds like you have your head in the right place Sara :k:
Is that all men think about and want from women? They just use them for their own pleasure and then throw em away and tell them to make food...bas? And then when it's her turn and she wants to talk and spend some time with you; you say that women talk a lot and when women complain that men are ignorant or what so ever and try to discuss this problem of yours with you, you say that they taunt a lot and are bitchy and malicious. Don't they give you want you want? Then why dont you give them what they want! Gosh! Maybe you do deserve all those jootiyan you guys get and complain about after shadi.
This is what made me mad too. Although, I agree there are men who are so selfish and expect this from their "wives" but I do hope our fungu was only joking.
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Is that all men think about and want from women? They just use them for their own pleasure and then throw em away and tell them to make food...bas?
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Is that all men think about and want from women? They just use them for their own pleasure and then throw em away and tell them to make food...bas? And then when it's her turn and she wants to talk and spend some time with you; you say that women talk a lot and when women complain that men are ignorant or what so ever and try to discuss this problem of yours with you, you say that they taunt a lot and are bitchy and malicious. Don't they give you want you want? Then why dont you give them what they want! Gosh! Maybe you do deserve all those jootiyan you guys get and complain about after shadi.
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destinee, if it helps any, I was just kidding in my post. I know that I make a lot of crude jokes about womens and whatnot. But believe me, i've always treated women with utmost respect. When I was in pakland, my friends would make fun of me whenever I spoke out against them bothering a girl walking down a street or whatever. Infact I've lost a lot of friends due to this. I have two sisters myself, I know it can be frustrating for you girls in this world to deal with this crap but I think most guys that replied in this thread was only kidding about what kinda wife they expect. Sorry if we came across as junglee sex monsters.
I'm not mad at the guys in this thread. It just goes out for the whole male population...desi, yes. As a girl, I know how women go through all the pain in their lives. I was basically getting mad at how some women are treated in Pakistan and things related to life after shadi. Oh well, if anyone like that is present in this thread, it does go out for him as well. I know Funguy was joking, of course. I'm not mad at anyone in particular.
ur my ideal gurl destinee...:)
a wife w/o make-up is an ideal wife
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ur my ideal gurl destinee...:)
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Good joke Mal1k
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That should be...a wife without make-up on her wedding day is an ideal wife. :-D