what you think??

Do you think it’s normal when two people who are involved never argue or disagree on anything? They somehow always see eye to eye on things, and they never ever fight. And it’s not because one of them keeps their feelings to themself and does not admit they’re pissed off about something, or bottles up everything inside. They just seem to have the exact same mentality, opinions and feelings about everything!

I’ve heard that it’s healthy for couples to fight and disagree with one another (to a certain extent), so does that mean there’s something wrong if they are always getting along?

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dont worry ull disagree at some point or another

enjoy not fighting:rotato:

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dont worry ull disagree at some point or another

enjoy not fighting:rotato:

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well if d other person likes comprimising and keeping deyre feeling to demselves den dts hw dey wnt to keep deyre relationship bt dey will argue u one time or another.

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My husband and I didn't fight for a long time. Now we really just quibble, no major fights. As long as both people are expressing themselves and are happy in the relationship, I don't think there's anything wrong.

People bring out different sides of each other. And each couple has different ways of expressing itself. I know couples who ALWAYS fight, and I used to be worried about them. But it's just the way they are together. And they seem happy :D

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There is a saying which goes like this "If both of you agree on everything, all the time, then one of you is not required"

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hi Zubda,
excellent topic.
many couples to be and newly-weds may forget the necessity of improving each others as in complementing and meaning well, but one side will take it upon itself to doubt and doubt and doubt.
one may never even attempt to define love in a relationship, unless we look at the care aspect in that relationship.
being grounded and able to like each other even when two people are diff is what adds to new experience in life.
one may be all honest and open, but if the other side does not even try to meet half way, then it is futile to forge a relationship.
endearing people are those who are able to look at each other with a sense of confidence and not factor in their baseless fears in order to make alibis and waste ( after a bad argument, what may appears to be fake input of ) their own energy in a relationship.
God help such people to realize how immature and uncertain and insecure they are.
and if nothing works, best stress relief and space for each other, is a power walk around the house called gher to liven up the positive closeness as a strength of the relationship - will take time and will be frustrating even hurtful, but if there 's a glimmer of true success, there is no harm in trying to maintain an argument and bring it back to a healthy discourse.
of course, time lapse, intentions, genuineness in responding and initiating a response are all major factors to a desired and nice outcome.
humans cannot live in monotonous linkage with others as in master slave arrangements.
arguments don’t have to be seen as threats to one's own values, who knows a new perspective can inspire a middle ground, a better understanding and an improvement in everyone involved.

Dushwari

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I think its possible to some degree. Meaning if there is a disagreement it isnt really voiced or argued over.

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depends on how long the couple has been together.

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suru suru ka din suhanay he hotai hain :chai:

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Bra Tajrba hy:faizy:

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**tajrba nahi tajrbayyy… :cb:
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Every relationship is different.