My character has improved over time, and especially with regard to Believers. I suppose there is different groups and different prospectives around. Not all of them are acceptable and my respect does not extend to them. This is what I consider right thing to do. But its certainly the path I have been given, whether it is a good one or bad one, as you will appreciate Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala knows best. This understanding of mine is what is given to me by Allah Most Merciful, Alhamdulillah, after worship.
The Sahaba were soft on fiqhi differences, and harsh on aqeedah differences, small bits of information like this keep me content with my conduct, and poise
And I am happy over my conduct and character then say yours or others. I think yours and theirs is misplaced. Certainly I wouldn’t want theirs and again I have my reasons. i would even tell you and them to ditch what they consider good conduct and start again, if I was given the chance
The other issue, is background. Perhaps we share different backgrounds, and yours is better then mine, and I can not see that nor rise to your level of written and spoken sophistication.
However i back my religious positions and the test of them is in the religion not in written or spoken sophistication