Re: what you conclude from her attitude?
It’s not easy for him to allow her, to do anything, her expose off about this relationship mean, he will lost his respect in family as well in community, he is known person, and I advice him to relocate some other places and now he is seriously thinking to relocate, negative point, if he step forward on this advice , he would lose his current job, and time being may be cut off from his family,
But plus point of this step, she would not have directly access to him, and he may again restart his normal life without such kind of error or mistakes, which he done in past, I believe this will work on him, as he is qualified, will get job easily in any place, and latter he may find someone, if he want to marry and after passing time everything will come on normal.